Afraid of Speaking Up?

Afraid of Speaking Up?

According to most studies, the number one fear for most people in our society is the fear of public speaking. This comes ahead of the fear of death or the fear of being injured. Many people are terrified at the thought of having to speak in front of people they don’t know so well, and…

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Adding Value in the best way

Adding Value in the best way

Adding value is a goodwill gesture, where the supplier of a product or service provides a bonus to the customer or client. It is a concept that works well in the economic world by giving a person or organisation the edge in the marketing and business worlds. It is an important criteria for end users…

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Urgent need for Transformation

Urgent need for Transformation

Do you ever wonder how our world can become transformed? What will it take to bring about real transformation? How will people who are outcast become reunited in community? How will greed be replaced by fair go and generosity? How will punishment be replaced by rehabilitation? How will judgment be replaced by compassion? How will…

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World Peace – Cracking the Code (2)

World Peace – Cracking the Code (2)

“If every eight year old in the world is taught meditation, we will eliminate violence from the world within one generation.” –Dalai Lama The Dalai Lama challenges us to crack the code for world peace by using meditation. Is meditation then, the key to non-violence in the world? It definitely seems like a great concept…

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From Dirt Digger to Gold Digger

From Dirt Digger to Gold Digger

In our social world, how do we become a gold digger rather than a dirt digger? How do we find the good in people when the worst is often portrayed in media stories? Raised in a competitive culture, we have been conditioned to have high regard for achievement, and to perform better than others in almost…

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The Trauma of News

The Trauma of News

Vicarious trauma is a term that refers to stress responses that occur in a person as a result of witnessing or working with people’s traumatic experiences. It can be described as a secondary form of trauma that may occur when we carry or hold onto stories of the trauma of others, usually as a result…

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Too busy for silence?

Too busy for silence?

We live in such a busy world, and it seems there is no sign of it slowing down. Quite the opposite, it seems that life continues to get more and more hectic. As inhabitants of the world and citizens of communities, we involve ourselves in many levels of functioning, often at a frenetic pace. At…

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Being authentic isn’t everything – or is it?

Being authentic isn’t everything – or is it?

I read a great blog recently by business marketer Megan Barrow which caused me to think about authenticity and the benefits (or not) about being authentic in what we do and how we present ourselves. I had never thought that being authentic could ever be considered anything but positive, as authenticity is aligned with sincerity,…

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You’re not listening!

You’re not listening!

How often is this said to us or do we say it to others? It seems that statements which include the words: “You’re not listening” affect all of us in a negative way. Either we feel accused when the words are directed at us, or we feel frustrated and angry when we are directing those…

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